How To Get Through The Uncomfortable In Between Stages Of Change And Growth In Business With More Ease. Some of the most common mistakes we all can make during these stages that can keep us stuck or even halt any progress.
What Are The In Between Stages Of Change And Growth In Business?
These are stages in our business where we and our business need to change or shift up in some way to survive or grow. Every business goes through these periods of change and growth, which will look different for every individual and business.
The challenge is these in-between stage can make us feel really uncomfortable or impatient. Especially If we let our emotions our shadow wounding get in the way and run the show.
But those in-between stages are necessary and powerful stages of our own personal and spiritual growth.
What Happens When We Abandon The In Between Stages
The problem is these key stages in life and business are the very time where too many abandon themself, their business and an opportunity to achieve a greater purpose. By jumping ship, giving up, running away or reacting impulsively like a 3 or 4 year old than rather face with self-compassion the uncomfortableness that is being brought to the surface to be addressed.
It’s the time we jump into another cycle of self-sabotage; with either rash decisions or a loop of catastrophizing or overthinking that leads us to analysis paralysis. The wounded child or even destroyer aspect of you takes over and sabotages your success or progress. Instead of creating bigger pauses or taking much smaller, slower, gentle steps.
But even when we manage to pause or be present with what is happening, the times when are ready to make massive shifts it can feel as if you are wading through treacle or facing all sorts of challenges or storms of resistance, that so many things in your business or life feel as if they don’t align or stick anymore. That you start questioning your purpose and your next step forward.
When in-fact at the other side of that “stuckness” is more clarity and flow than you could have imagined.
Clarity Cannot Be Rushed Between Periods Of Growth
One thing I have had to remind myself over and over again as a self-employed healer, therapist and coach for over 25 years is clarity cannot and and should not be rushed. Some of the biggest shifts in my life and career have came out of challenges and difficulties where at first I felt stuck, paralysed and out of all options. Where I felt I had no other option but to pause, surrender and let go.
We live in a world where we our fear has programmed to strive for control. When in reality true spiritual growth, true business expansion comes through from the absolute patience and beingness that comes from not trying to force something, but giving yourself and the universe space to present you with the next step. With all sorts of possibilities and solutions we could ever imagine. Instead of just going for the quickest temporary fix to feed our ego.
That Is Why Change And Growth Requires Deeper Presence
The greatest change and growth requires deep presence and deeper alignment.
It is the time we need to slow down and let go, and even take some time out.
But it also can be a perfect time to heal those wounds and clear up those loose ends and do things you have been putting off, that are leaving a lot of stagnant energy in your life and business.
But it doesn’t have to be overwhelming, it is much better to break down those tasks into bite-sized actions in a way that feel so much easier.
Big Shifts Happen When We Get More Grounded
To heal a little bit a time, when you are more still, grounded, and centred. No one heals when they are trying to force or rush it.
To help you do that, I have a variety of free resources to help you feel more calm, still and grounded over on my other platform, the Empowered Empath that you can access right now.
Strong, healthy decisions in business and life come from a grounded, still state, not from a place of anxiety, lack, or impatience.
If you want to start healing those shadow wounds that are getting in the way in a more simple step by step way, check out Beneath The Brand Course below
Eileen Burns is a Soul Path Guide and Soul-Led Business Mentor For Empaths, Healers and Conscious Business Owners, she is the owner of the Spiritual Marketing Club, Empowered Empath and Stress Coach Training
